Whether you are in a relationship, started dating, or maintaining friendships to make these bonds last a lifetime can be a difficult challenge. According to love expert and motivational speaker June Archer, the element that helps strengthen these bonds is Communication. When communicating with someone, it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it stated Archer.
Learning how people wish to be spoken to is essential for preserving relationships. It is natural for people to be defensive when they get into an argument with their significant other or friend. Archer believes that people should play offense instead of defense. Taking the initiative to solve the problem instead of blaming the other person helps diffuse the situation instead of increasing tension. People saying statements such as “I love you,” and “I’m proud of you,” more often will uplift people and lead to better relationships.
BY LAURENT OCTOBRE